Dear Liars, Cheaters, Betrayers and Heartbreakers,
This isn’t a your typical letter from your typical Black Woman . because you see I have no desire to bash what actually built me into the woman I am today . No longer am I a reflection of the ones who hurt me because I have embraced the lessons that I needed to learn and chose to move forward with my life . I don’t blame anyone for my misfortunes ;because since I’ve learned to love myself and stop putting so much trust in man .Ive realized that I subjected myself to this pain and a bunch of bull shit . Back then I didn’t believe I was deserving of love so I settled and lived my life in ignorance to attain bliss .
As crazy as this may sound hitting Rock bottom was the best thing that ever happened to me. All of those frivolous people and situations I thought were treasures lost were merely bullets I dodged by the grace of God.
To some this may not make sense so let me break it down to you .My pain gave me clarity of what NOT to take for granted . Every time I fell down I noticed the ones that continuously picked me up out of love and not gain . The battles I have fought made me find my voice . Losing everything in return resulted into me finding Faith and By finding God I ultimately found myself . Everyones story isn’t the same but I was just one of those people that had to learn the hard way. And to be honest where I’m headed is worth every tear and sleepless night . I have no resentment nor regrets .
I could go on but I rather keep it as short and sweet as the seasons I spent with you all lol .So before i bid you adieu I would like to say “Thank You for making me a Woman “๐๐๐๐พ๐๐พ
Sincerely,
The Girl you left behind .๐
What a great post, initially sounds so sad, but the fact that you have picked up courage is what matters to me most. You will continue to bubble in a great way, good luck dearie….
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Thank you so much ! Sometimes the best thing to do is grow through adversity ! It has made me a stronger and wiser woman and I’m thankful for that .
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It’s really great, congratulations
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More power to you………you rule your world…….. !!! ๐ ๐
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Thank you !
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You are very welcome!! ๐ ๐
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Coming out in the other side of pain is the best part. It makes you so much stronger!! So true and well said. It’s nothing more exciting then learning what your worth is. Continued success to you.
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Sometimes being left behind is a good thing. It can make you stronger and definitely more self confident. Great letter ๐
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I couldn’t fully appreciate the woman that I am until I dealt with my Daddy issues. All of my experiences made me who I am.
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Stay strong and yes live your life and move forward without resentment. It will only eat at you and possibly make you bitter. I think your approach to this is great.
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Thank you!
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I’ve always said to one particular ex that his wife should thank me for putting up with his crap and making him the man he is today. It sure helped me to k ow what I didn’t want from a relationship.
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Wow!! What a great post. There are always lessons in things that happen, even if it is a breakup.
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Fabulous way to think of life’s lessons! I’ll join you. Life is too short to harbor resentment and reflect on what we could have done differently. In 2017 I’m taking that energy and focusing it on me and my brand. Thanks Doll!
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there are great lessons in everything, right? I can only imagine the lessons that the one who did the leaving is learning… or should have learned.
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You are strong! I am glad that you found such strength after experiencing great hurt from a relationship. I have had a few bad experiences with relationships, too, and as much as those experiences were hurtful, I am so thankful that it has made me a stronger woman today. I am also very blessed with my husband who is nothing like the men I used to date. The bad experiences definitely show me how to be very grateful for the love I have today.
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When you hit the bottom at least you know there is only one way to go. Rather than continuously falling wondering where the bottom is so you can go up. Everything makes a stronger.
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This is powerful! I love that his been written in the minds of many black women. Thank you for sharing!
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