Why do some women use sex as a “weapon”? When misusing your “Power” can ultimately leave you “Powerless “…

Some people call it “P” power because they use sex as a weapon . But such as any weapon when you don’t know what you’re doing “playing with fire “can ultimately cause self inflicted pain.
I have no clue how this plague started ! The plague that has poisoned so many women’s minds from youth till now . What exactly happened that made certain women treat their bodies as an “asset” and not their temple ? What caused some of us to compensate sex with love ? When some feel lonely they’re so quick to make a phone call to “mr. Wrong ” to feel complete even if it is for that moment . Some even use it to attain validation or to even climb the “ladder ” of “success”.
Some think they’ve got it all figured out but in reality their spiraling out of control. You lose sense of reality and some even become numb . Some become infected, some become addicted, some even cause self inflicted pain , some even end up where they’ve literally and figuratively bent over backwards for years not to be and that’s alone .

How was this seed planted ? Could it really be possible that so many “silent cries” have been left unheard ?? 😪
I pray for my future daughter daily . I pray that I stay attentive and love her to The moon and back. I pray that she is blessed with a father that will love her unconditionally and open her eyes to the things I was never taught as a child . I pray my little girl will look in the mirror everyday and see her crown and realize her true power isn’t between her legs but between her ears…
Great read. And sadly, I think some women are hurting and don’t know how to heal their hurts, but through sex. Soul ties are very real and until they grasp that, they’ll always have that mindset.
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Good post. A really make you think post. And I wish I knew. They are losing but thinking they are winning. Go figure!
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Sex as a weapon… hmm maybe because some women think that’s all that they have going for them. I’m not even sure.
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Yes, in this very sexualized society I think many people compensate with sex. As a teacher I want my students to understand their worth and hopefully their actions will reflect their true value.
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I’ve never used my sexuality or the giving of sex as a weapon but I have been guilty of seeing it as a bargaining point. In a marriage this can be so dangerous and I had to learn that quickly. Sex is a gift between you and your partner. One you give to each other not based on conditions but love.
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Me either and I totally agree with your closing statement!
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Our bodies are precious! They are the temple of God and we should all treat it as such.
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I think many women have been taught that sex is a weapon by their moms, society, pastors, and others.
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I like what you said. True power is not between the legs but betweeen the ears.
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This article is great and so on time. Too many woman have the ‘power’ mentality then wonder why they can’t get anywhere in life.
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I agree, sex and our bodies should definitely not be used as a weapon. So sad that some women feel otherwise.
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