Riddle Me This ….. ๐Ÿค”

:Do you believe social media can ruin a relationship?::

“I don’t believe social media ruins relationships .Dishonesty and sneakiness does โฃ “~Unknown

*just my personal opinion because even though this isn’t “reality” how you carry yourself on here reflects how you do in real life . Meaning if you don’t respect your partner in the streets than social media is just another outlet for your habits.

People just need somebody or something to blame for their issuesโ€ผ๏ธ but truth be told if social media didn’t exist you not only would still be getting cheated on but would also not have found out as fast โ€ผ๏ธ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ’ฏ so I guess it’s a catch 22 ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

So don’t be fooled “Unplugging” doesn’t guarantee anything โ€ผ๏ธ and if your cheating partner Is pressuring you to do so she or he is only trying to cover his or her tracks . If your relationship is transparent then it shouldn’t matter how many sites the both of you are on .

BUT what I do believe is social media can at times isolate you from reality as an individual . Meaning this may become addictive and cut into your productive time . Which is a valid reason to detox from time to time . Communication is key in all aspects of life especially relationships . Therefore getting back into the basics can really spark things up .

Meaning :
๐Ÿ’šLess texting and more talking

๐Ÿ’šNo more subliminal memes and actually speaking what’s really heavy on your heart

๐Ÿ’šless sharing and more keeping those special moments “special”

๐Ÿ’šinstead of trying to convince the world how much you love your partner . Dedicate that time and energy to remind him or her .

๐Ÿ’šlog off and get lost with each other

๐Ÿ’šupdate each other about your day instead of your status

๐Ÿ’šless exposure and more mystery

๐Ÿ’šwhen you’re “bored ” try somethings new together versus scrolling your timelines

And the list can go on and on โฃ I mean I’m not an expert (clearly ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚) but one thing I am for sure is super observant . And what I’ve learned is that most long-term married couples are too consumed with each other and their lives to really get lost in the webs of social media . Yes they have accounts but that’s not their life nor is it a Heavy habit unless it’s business related .

I don’t know about you but I’ll trade “likes” for Love any day โฃ๐Ÿ˜ and on that note I’m done before I start rambling ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
So now that you know my opinion of this question I would love to hear if you agree with me or not . ๐Ÿค” ๐Ÿ’ญ

Power off and Turn me on โฃ #antisocialmedia


  1. you are absolutely right……..social media is a medium to escape, relax, be entertained or informed……….the moment you loose track of the line between actual and virtual…….stop and evaluate. ๐Ÿ™‚

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  2. Hi Meras Meraki,
    I know Joel and Aquileana. Thank you for coming by my blog and liking my post about my blog party.
    In response to what you wrote, social media can definitely hurt a relationship. It is hard to balance a relationship and blogging which involves social media, I know. However, it is necessary. I’ve written about social media and the need for balance in blogging often.
    Nice to meet you.

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    1. Thank you and I totally agree ! Being blind to your reality can prolong the toxic situation . The harsh reality is some people need the truth to slap them in the face a million times for the light switch to come on . And social media expedites the process .

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        1. Good discernment doll !! Locking you out their pages and having secret accounts is just as suspect as someone always having their phone muted , off , or flipped face down Everytime you are together !! Smh

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